the essentualism of dysphoria as a part of the trans experience is a very toxic idea focused around the medicalisation of transness. some trans people have dysphoria, but it's not a prerequisite. trans people are people who decide to deviate from their birth gender, they are not people with dysphoria. people can do what the fuck they want, if somebody thinks damn it'd be kinda cool to just be a girl the same way they might wanna dye their hair go the fuck for it.
we need to work at the demedicalisation of transness the way we did for homosexuality. it's not a mental health disorder, it''s a lifestyle choice that just kinda happens. there's no logical reasoning behind it and looking for one ultimately leads to this need to 'cure' it as a negative thing than to work on the social things around it that make transness a stressful experience.
'dysphoria' is a social condition created by transphobia locking away the freedom of expression, it's not a sickness created by trans people