transformative justice thoughts
this came out of a conversation with a partner about making judgements that someone ought to change their behavior:
when we perceive a harmful behavior in our community, and after considering ways to stop the harm, think the person doing the harm should change their behavior. (not always the case), we must always ask the question:
how does that person change?
The more we think about this, the more important we think it is. I wish people thought about it more in our communities.