I've been no-contact with my mom and stepdad for nearly five years now. (Long story short: they're the source for most of my trauma) She's been stalking me nonstop ever since I went non-contact, going so far as to being in my city when I moved here last year (there's no way she could have known I was here).
I guess she sent my mother-in-law a message on Fb in June (MIL has her blocked so she didn't see it for a while) claiming that she was dying and that they wanted me to drive up to Ohio to get the stuff that was left behind when I got away back in 2007.
Here's the thing: I wrote my stuff off as a loss already. I never intend on getting any of it back. I feel like she wants me to go up there so her husband can kill me. I know he has the means to do so.
And, to be honest, I emotionally disconnected from my mom five years ago. I can honestly say that I don't care if she's dying. If that makes me a bad person, keep in mind that she and my stepdad are my abusers.