Wonderland gang 🌺 @wonderland@plural.cafe

Sometimes people ask me if they should refer to us in singular or plural. And i think they expect a simple answer. But it's not that simple at least for us. When people are referring to activities that we do together like travelling (sometimes) or sleeping we prefer plural. Because all of us are ment not just one headmate. Other things like music taste is a more individual thing that differs from one to another. So here i prefer singular. Also body related stuff is always in plural because its our body.

For us the answer is not just singular or just plural. Its both.

At the moment we are not seeking for an any medical diagnosis for our condition. We are not broken we are just different then most people. We do whatever feels right and seems to be the right way for us. Please respect that and avoid using medical terms for us.

Hello, We are pretty new to this and there is still pretty much unclear. we are at least three headmates. We hope we can learn more stuff about thiss system and also of other systems. We also have trouble always knowing who exactly is fronting so to mark who fronts while writing a toot is difficult.

L: Ich habe instagram genommen weil es da nicht so viele Wörter gibt

L: Yey ich habe endlich einen eigenen social media account auf Instagram :)

Irgendwie spanndend mehr und meher zu verstehen wie verschieden wir sind. Und vorallem zwischenmenschlich mit anderen zurecht zu kommen. Und auch mit uns selber klarzukommen. Zurzeit ist irgendwie chelsea weniger da und krass zu sehen wie anders wir uns im alltag verhslten. Und wie anders auf einmal alice ist, wenn chelsea nicht da ist. Ich hoffe chelsea kommt bald wieder. Wir vermissen sie alle sehr. Viele sein kann auch sehr viel Anstrengungen bedeuten.

Vorstellungsrunden können auch manchemal sehr belastend sein. Zum Beispiel wenn wir gerade ni ht genau wissen wer wir sind und uns vorstellen sollen. Ich bin selber doch damit gerade überfordert. Ahhh.

Morning cuties

How is a plural pc application called?
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File system
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aaahhh why is stuff so complex. L wants to meet and contact people but A does not want to contact the person and is still deeply hurt by things that were said. and now we are like what to do? How can we resolve the issue. >.<

how it started: "We are clearly not plural, how can we? We just like to use we when we talk abt us and would be nice when others would refer to us in plural, too."

how it's going: "Hii we are a cool gang of peeps trying to maneuver around."

Got called today gang and have to say we quite like it. We are a cool gang now. :3

The song is so wonderful. I love it. Mentioned triggers are in the lyrics of the song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmDOFoeRPB8&t=0