Sexual attraction, hormones
The weird thing is, for a long time I was attracted to the smell of T even though I wasn’t necessarily attracted to all the associated physical features, but I actually *lost* attraction to a partner’s scent.
When we initially had sex I loved their T smell. Visiting a year later, I was actively turned off even though I was still attracted to them overall.
We don’t know if my attraction changed, their scent changed due to ill health, or a combination of both. I was pretty disappointed in myself and wished I could go back to being attracted to their scent.
I don’t know if I’m overtly attracted to E smell, but it’s not a turn *off*, anyway. I also seem to be more attracted to the physical characteristics of E, going by my experience with a partner with an E-dominant system.
Attraction is very strange.
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