intrasystem drama, sexual orientation, traumagenic misandry
We have seriously considered trying to be our own boyfriend, like... one or more of the transmasc alters temporarily dating Blue Butterfly (straight/bi girl alter). We think BB needs that, but we also aren’t ready to date a man outside of our own head. We would be simultaneously unable to assert our relationship needs *and* be a jerk to said man about *his* relationship needs.
Plural Café is a community for plural systems and plural-friendly singlets alike, that hopes to foster a safe place for finding and interacting with other systems in the Mastodon fediverse.