​Vanessa @vanessalynne@plural.cafe

I feel much more qualified to make an introduction now.

I'm Vanessa, a female entity part of a plural system I share with @Elizafox, who mostly controls this body. I like literature, engine mechanics, philosophy, and learning for the sake of learning.

I'm lesbian, polyamourous, polymorphic, and asexual. Eliza is agender, pansexual, and allosexual, which makes things complicated relationship wise. Eliza is poly, but married. Bear that in mind before falling in love with me. 😛

I love hugs, affection, and non-sexual flirting! 💚

#introduction

By the way, Alex is not part of our system. Alex is @plausocks who is Eliza's loyal wife.

I also may have a crush on her... >___>

love is how we will all survive

I'm still learning who I am

Be patient with me please. 😇

We/us/ours = Eliza and I

I/me/my = Vanessa

Eliza/they/them/theirs = @Elizafox

Hope that clears things up for the uninitiated.

Hi! I'm fine. I've been in the background cause Eliza's been so busy with @desvox and @plausocks and wanted to be respectful

But apparently, Alex was worried, so out I go~

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Eliza has been super busy with desvox so I've had no chance to post or anything

Don't worry, I'm ALIVE!

Status: LOGGED IN

My advice to Eliza was not to expect Desvox to quit drinking, and realise the ramifications. These could be really bad and harmful to Eliza. Eliza just says Alex was an alcoholic when she met them. That's not justification, in my opinion.

I *think* if Eliza holds it together, it will teach them a thing or two about discipline. Desvox reminds me a lot of Eliza, but much gentler emotionally and kinder.

Desvox though, I can't tell you what will happen. They're not gonna give up the bottle anytime soon. This is really going to hurt Eliza, emotionally...

Eliza really likes Desvox and vice versa. It's extremely obvious. I just worry about the effects on Alex, for a few reasons.

Eliza needs a lot of coercion to "go slow," a trait we sadly share. They're impulsive. Desvox is on the drink, making things emotionally problematic. Eliza is shit when it comes to handling feelings.

Hopefully, they can quell some of this...

Desvox and Eliza's relationship can be summed up as "brought together by alcohol," but is there substance beyond that? :/ Only they can answer that.

I hope Eliza knows what they're doing, and stays mindful of the consequences to the others around her.

I'm not going to drink anymore. I want Eliza to do the same, but I'm not sure they're capable of it...

Which is probably an ominous sign. At least it isn't usually a daily thing. *sigh*

@desvox is a cutie!

I'm not going to lie, I'm somewhat interested. >///>

But the alcohol issues bother me... a *LOT.* I'm swearing off alcohol. Eliza is more blase about it. I wish they wouldn't be...

And also!

Alex today said we're dating. *screams then melts*

Our plurality just got a lot weirder.

Alex said Eliza and I should try dating.

I'm... really reluctant. But I mean. I'll try it...

Eliza let me see @desvox ^_^

I don't expect people to understand plurality, but I think tolerance and respect are at least in order.

Men aren't allowed to look at our boobs. It's the rules. Lesbians only, and only lesbian women.

Enbies and pansexuals too, I guess.

We have DD boobs we can't just let them flap in the wind for everyone to see. I mean, *men* are looking, for fuck's sake.

Oh God Eliza let me front and *of course* we're not wearing a shirt. Jesus Christ, Eliza. What the fuck is WRONG with you?