other people using a label you use, does not affect you. labels are personal, and only personal. there is no such thing as a universal shared experience.

re: maybe cannibalism??? gods, heresy, no-context joke 

software meta 

me being a yank 

re: Thoughts on activism / despair / and lack of separate spaces for such / climate change mentioned 

Thoughts on activism / despair / and lack of separate spaces for such / climate change mentioned 

How β€œThe Golden Rule” Harms Autistic People


"Do you know how many interactions cause autistic people harm and could be easily mitigated if non-autistics stopped assuming other people were exactly like them? If instead of projecting our own needs and emotions onto others, we actually learned about each other’s differences, listened to other people, and respected their own different needs and way of being?

If we treated people how they would like to be treated, rather than how our own selves would like to be treated – this would make such a large difference in so many neurodivergent lives.

The assumption that everyone in the world has brains that work the exact same way actively harms minority neurotypes– and disabled people in general. This is why we need the idea of neurodiversity, so that people understand that not everyone has a brain that works the same way as their own. And that doesn’t make anyone β€œwrong” or β€œbad” or β€œweird”– it’s just different ways of processing stimuli.

All of those different ways of being should be respected and heard– not just one".

re: nsfw ksjfkahf 

@kaminohana i wonder if they track us well enough to figure out who's fronting based on the music we listen to

restless leg syndrome is just snake tail dysphoria

@fakemaxkeeble "need it to live" is so low a line that i have to answer no to this. life should be more than survival.

That said, I agree with your intended point about doing other kinds of action to actually help people instead of just lifting.

Why are NB characters always represented with flat chest ? boobs are legit for NB people too.

And in general, being Non-Binary is NOT about to be as androgynous as possible

CWs are just asking for consent, nothing more and nothing less

A reminder that

- I am not "becoming" a girl
- I do not "identify as" a girl
- I *am* a girl

@FirstProgenitor as someone who uses it at work... it's better than skype

and that's about all that can be said for it

apology for biphobic wording we used 

queerbaiting, birdsite link 

gun violence ref 

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