literally just listen when folks are being ableist and shit to kin, y'all. call them in at that point and hopefully they'll learn how not to be an asshole before they pull some racist bullshit at pv or myass
because seriously, it feels like folks just work down their list of acceptable targets until they get to fucking with people they actually get pushback on. if you defend people early, it doesn't have to get to this point.
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