body refuses to get up. it's as though nobody's home. i don't care, heh.


I've been frontstuck for a while. What's different this time is that I don't feel like it's a bad thing. Erin's still here to back us up, so things aren't in such a bad way.

I feel like the rest of the system is pretty complacent at the moment, too. This is do different for us.


I said to Autumn, "You are happier than I am now!"

This is different! I have always been the happy one~ I sort of don't know what to feel about this!

Don't misunderstand me; I am so happy that Autumn has found true happiness! It's a beautiful thing to see! Autumn has never been happy before~ This is such a monumental change for us, and it will take some getting used to!

By no means am I saying any of this is bad. I am so proud of Autumn and how far they've come. They deserve this more than anything! It has just sent a shockwave throughout the system, and we are trying to adjust! 😅​


We're still getting used to our already short attention span being divided amongst different things~

We've never been good with multitasking! 😅​👍​


I am mentally exhausted/out of spoons. I wish I could sleep all day, or just have Erin front. Maybe she will. But I'm so exhausted. I think I need to just step away from fedi for today and just watch Netflix or play a game or something


Feeling weird and blendy


New Masto Users: Advice (not rules) about CWs (thread) (1) 

I'm butch and transfemme because the spelling is dope and "fem" just looks weird to me.

Sorry if you don't like how I choose to identify.

@nightsky_system Ahahah I'm so freaked out but I think we're feeling okay now.


So people who run single-user instances

I've been lowkey thinking about starting one for my future company, since business accounts don't really belong on .Art, but like how much would you estimate I would need? I have a space at a web hotel that I'm currently hosting my portfolio website at, but it only uses like 1% of the space I have. Would it be possible or even desireable to host everything on there??

uhh #MastoAdmin ?? :boost_ok:

Hi I think this is Raven. I am able to type. However this is not the best time for this. I would have liked to introduce myself under better circumstances but I don't know why it is this. Autumn is here with me and I don't think I know them well but we had a panic attack and I was put in front but Autumn is here. I may be able to type because of Autumn but I do not know really. I am scared and I think that we messed up something and I can't tell yet. I want to go home.


re: Kinda Neg 

re: Mental illness (-), suicide mention 

@Ghostery We still struggle with imposter syndrome regarding how "real" we are, too (amongst other mental health related things).

I wish the world didn't put this kind of pressure on folks like us. *Offers hugs*


re: Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. 


Being non-binary doesn’t mean looking androgynous!

Non-binary people who don’t look androgynous are just as valid as those who don’t!


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