it's so nice to masturbate and get off on a fantasy of... being appreciated and cared about? we're feeling a lot of gender out of being appreciated and found hot, and specifically personally, closely, and without it being based on what people expect our gender to be
horny, gender feels
we've basically been having a lot of thoughts about gender and why we're uncomfy with men being into us quite often and how that's not a lack of attraction ourselves but that we're used to chasers and/or ppl who actively just, see us as women
and it's nice to channel our Wants into fantasizing
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