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oh as a sidenote because its awkward to say "host" all the time or saying a name, I Phos the host am now going to be referred to as "OP". err, when that becomes a conflict in context we'll try to be clearer.

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Alaina (hoodie): I'm Alaina, she/her/hers. I'm just hanging 'round, taking things one at a time. I don't like people dragging me into their conflicts, yet if you need me to stand up for you, I got it. I identify as a girl but have a very androgynous style. In the head space, I have the most neutral energy, I'd guess. Sometimes a voice of reason. Xiang is my boyfriend

Penelope (sleeveless): Helloooooo! I realize I take up a lot of the headspace, hahaha. I've been around for a LONG time, and supposedly have the most development in my story? Like, I was gonna be the protag even when there wasn't one. Dilius is my other half, and I live with him! Uh, people ask what we have a lot and, um, I'm not really sure. Still figuring that out. She/her, ace, sono italiana! I love adventure, skydiving, etc. I'm friends with a lot of people and love making new ones. Oh! I also front a lot for exercising since I love to do that too. I've trained with multiple weapons and fighting styles!

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Xia (horns): I'm Xia Tang, and sometimes the people here have a tendency to make a portmanteau of it as Xiang, but I'd prefer you didn't. Or not. I don't care honestly, it's just my name. I'm big on MMORPGs, but only in the mindspace. Host doesn't play too many. If you want good memes I can at least give you that. I prefer dark and monstrous visuals and could probably make a good JRPG if the host bothered to learn the programming.

Kalteni (bunny): Heya! Nice to meet you. I'm Kalteni, but some of the others refer to me as Mrs. Kalteni, since I'm a teacher to most. These aren't just kemonomimi- I'm really a rabbit! But like, whatever you know? Fun fact: I ride a moped! But in the mindspace, you know? Not in the host's body. Not the right place for it. I'm holding the word "shit" in Italian because it WAS the right place for it. Someone you'll meet later, L.U., is my wife and I love teasing her. I tease everyone here. Also close to Kidoko, my roommate. Down to talk any time!

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Yana (blond hair): I'm Yana Rosso. My hobbies are working out, forest exploring, and brewing coffee, maybe. But listen, I don't drink it because I NEED to, unlike some people. You need to appreciate coffee, not guzzle it down like Pepto Bismol. Anyway. Valka and I are pretty close, I'd say. Like sisters. I'm a fairy but I don't like pointing it out. It's a bit of a sore subject. Dylan, who'll you'll meet later, is my best friend and if you mess with him you will get THESE FISTS!!! Valka is like my kid sister too, so don't bother her.

Valka (black hair): Hello! I'm Valka Rania, but Valka is fine! I live with Yana, and I'm doing my best to perfect my skills in magic. It's tough work, but it's what I really want to do, so I wouldn't have it any other way. I love the snow- I grew up in it! I used to be a princess but well, things didn't turn out so well. That's okay- I've come to enjoy the new life I have living with Yana. I'm Buddhist but also have a deep appreciation for Hinduism.

psa / queermisia 

Hey, for those of y'all who use LGBTA fandom wiki to learn about queerness and don't know:

Fandom has decided that lesser known queer labels (like pretty much every xenogender) are no longer going to be allowed on their new condensed LGBTQIA+ wiki because they're not "officially recognized by activists."

You can read the full post in the link for more information. We don't have the spoons to cover everything in this post, but we wanted to make sure people know about this.

gender neutral terms that make me feel uwu


i really love the flavor of polyamory i have with my boyfriend bc we are each others' BIGGEST advocates for dating
we're always so excited when the other has a new date and are so encouraging

tma joke 

honestly jane prentiss ultimately understands the yearning and satisfaction im talking about

re: - about dreams, in almost a poetic way 

the only way i can really describe it is like the dependence of a parasite to a host, in which you are wholly needed, but without the pain and suffering. and how good it feels to be so definitely needed and appreciated for what you have that you dont really think about it

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- about dreams, in almost a poetic way 

there's nothing like the feeling of being loved in a dream. it's in such a way you don't feel in the waking world. it's so tender and genuine. social interactions aren't awkward. it's straightforward, and you feel so cared about in a way you never have. it's like a higher dimensional love. no matter the circumstances of the dream, you wake up with the yearning to return to the place with the person who so loved you

tornado mention 

tornadoes are the earth's way of telling people Not to Live There


im reading up on kinds of romantic attraction and the example this person gave in terms of cultural context:
"Romance can also occur on a micro level. Let's say Patty and John are anarchist punks who just started dating. Patty has been angry with Taco Bell for some time because they misrepresent where their produce comes from, and Patty prefers local food. So, in an effort to be romantic, John vandalizes Taco Bell in Patty's name. This makes Patty swoon. Now, in one sense we'd call John romantic because he did something specifically intended to elicit romantic feelings from Patty. In another sense, however, John is not romantic, because vandalizing a restaurant does not fit into our culturally identified concept of love and wooing. So while on a micro level, John may be romantic, on a macro level, John is not going to be held out to the public as a 'hopeless romantic'"

its pluralphobic that so many voicebanks are so expensive
do you know how many alters wanna use that voice. yes god dammit theyre gonna sound like a vocaloid

do you ever feel like some days the world has boiled down to either "you talk about your frustrations and people encourage you to not be so negative" or "you talk about your frustrations to someone who can actually do something about them and they say 'sorry sweetie, i cant change it, thats just how the world works' :( "

trans to trans communication in emails when a person's display name on outlook is a differently gendered name than the one they sign off emails with. and yours is the same way

that awkward feel when you interact with someone from childhood after several years and you are. a different system now

How much of your anxiety comes from an overactive nervous system and how much of it comes from an intrinsically stressful environment?

If you're neurodivergent then it could be much more of the latter than we're being told.

Never underestimate the degree to which the normative experience - neurological, ableist, gendered, racial, sexual, privileged etc. - is coddled by society at large.

Hello systems. I have a question- what is the smoothest way to introduce yourself to someone when you're fronting? If you're not sure if that person has met you?

the girl i used to play action figures with is now the girl i discuss yaoi with. i couldnt tell you how either of us got to this point

im a vocaloid bitch. always down to share vocaloid recs, ive been in this community 10+ years and im so glad so many great artists have kept it alive and so many poppin vocal synthesizers have come out over the years. like god its really timeless at this point isnt it


me, thinking about firefighters and how strength is important to their jobs: wow firefighters are amazing

Life changing: local realizes they can just put hand washable clothes in the washing machine on delicate with cold water instead of literally handwashing

Does anyone know of a good text to voice program with a variety of voices, or better yet a voice you can adjust? I wanted to try finding some for the alters at some point

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