talk of the medical side of the community 

[Tian]
Remember that rant from months ago? It's probably for the best if you don't

Anyway, a big HUGE problem i have with the medical side of the community is how they treat ignorance as a personal threat. You use what they deem an incorrect term and suddenly you have a bunch of people telling you you're spreading "dangerous misinformation" and should shut up immediately. There's no attempt to tell you what the "correct" information is, just an attempt to shut you down as quickly as possible and tell you that you're dangerous

horny on main, genital talk 

[Tian]
I could masturbate way easier when I had a penis

[Tian]
Ugh, dealing with emotions is so difficult. I can't tell if what I'm feeling is me feeling it or if it's them giving passive influence that's making me feel it, not to mention this feeling is wholly new to me in this life so I don't even know if it is what I think it is, and just ugh why am I always ending up in situations that are difficult to explain to anybody outside of the community? I don't exactly have any close system friends, and how is one supposed to talk about this subject anyway?
(I might have a crush on the host? Or they might have a crush on me? Or it might be something else? I'm so confused)

horny on main 

[Tian]
I don't know the difference enough between hypersexual and just plain ol high libido to know what I am

NSFW, horny on main 

[Tian]
listening to NSFW ASMR because a man has needs and I'm 100% out of the mood because NOBODY TALKS LIKE THAT also the guy sometimes sounds like Markiplier and I just cannot take this seriously I need to find a better one

[Tian]
Sorry for NSFW talk, this is just the only place I know where I can CW that and it's not like we're using this place for anything else

NSFW, noncon mention (dw im being negative about it) 

[Tian]
nothing makes me fucking dryer than noncon good god why is that so rampant in hentai. i want to relieve this pressure, not get morally disgusted

NSFW, horny on main 

[Tian]
That feeling when I get a groinal response at complete fucking random and have to suffer because I cannot jack off with a penis I do not have

I don't know how KO can be considered Die but Here We Are

re: invalidation, discussion of the clinical side of the community 

"Parts" especially, ugggggh I hate that term as much as I hate the terms "original" and "core", yet if I express any kind of distaste towards it and how utterly dehumanising it is, I'm a faker

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re: invalidation, discussion of the clinical side of the community 

I miss how the community used to be. I took a break from it and it feels like everything crashed down around my ears into some kind of civil war

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invalidation, discussion of the clinical side of the community 

I'm actually kinda sick of how often my experiences are called fake - either to me directly or via proxy. Even if I say "I don't know what this is, but it feels like X", so long as X isn't an Officially Used Term, I'm considered to be spreading dangerous misinformation and treated with hostility
And then there's some words I'm simply uncomfortable with applying to myself, but so much of that side of the community is like "If you don't like this word then you're a fake"

Maybe fusion feels like the best way to describe what I'm experiencing, it being much different than what I refer to as blurring. Maybe the term "parts" makes me feel invalid, as if the people within me helping me out are just shards or puzzle pieces instead of their own person. Maybe the use of my own term that I made myself doesn't immediately make me an endo faker

[Tian]
The general community stance that fusion isn't a real experience also doesn't help with this tbh, but that's because we need different names for every experience

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[Tian]
Co-front blurring is weird, it's like being synced up with someone. Like, drift stuff in Pacific Rim? I never watched that actually. It's tricky to figure out where I stop and Jy starts, it's just a big blurry mess but we're still separate enough to be ourselves it isnt like some kind of fusion like Jy themselves is. It's odd

venting 

I am literally the only person in both of these servers (which are at least 100 people each) who gets ignored every single time I try to vent. It's like I don't fucking exist to them

(not about here) UGGGGGGGH i either get fucking ignored or outright talked over, I hate this. Every single time I try to vent, this happens. Why do I even bother if nobody gives a shit

buckle the fuck up for a day of depression with nothing to do

i vent anywhere on discord servers about even small things and people just flat-out ignore me 100% guaranteed

also, because I both can't resist it and don't want to do it to their face after the last person I did it to didn't get it

torille

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