Very Long Post; Intro list for our system Show more
Pronouns are in order of preference, names are in order of who in the subsystem is most. The body is mid twenties, white, neurodivergent, physically disabled and chronically ill. We are all varying levels of nerdy and Harry Potter fans.
-they/them, it/its, fae/faer
-certified aro bi disaster TM
-non human; monsterish mermaid and common crow
-fronts the most
-giant nerd; into, space, Fallout, Dragon Age, Leverage
-serves as the protector and is also the oldest
-fronts second most often
-very non human looking monster; lots of eyes and teeth; scales and feathers
-aromantic and not into humans
-enjoys horror media, dragon age, elder scrolls, and poetry
-gray aro and pan
-most extroverted of the group
-enjoys Mass Effect, Scifi media, baking
mental illness venting, swearing Show more
We were doing well, so of fucking course its time for our piece of crap brain to turn the self sabotage dial up to 100.
And like we've stopped ourselves from most of the related behaviors, but that doesn't help with the fact that our depression and anxiety are worse then they have been since the last time we were suicidal, which is making this so hard.
We are in a therapy group; it's going well, we have job opportunities and current jobs we like. We have friends and people to talk to. So why the fuck can't we enjoy it. Why must we suffer for no reason. There is nothing wrong to cause this and it bullshit that we can't be happy for on god damn week without our own brain ruining it.
smile gets annoyed by syscourse round two Show more
"saying you have did without trauma is like saying you have ptsd without trauma"
first of all trauma is not in the diagnostic criteria for did, at least with the dsm, so no its not.
second pretty much all of the symptoms of ptsd show up in other disorders without trauma. trauma avoidance and re-experience symptoms are extremely similar if not the same as what you see in ocd around intrusive thoughts; much of the mood symptoms are seen in other disorders such as depression and bpd; hypervigilance and insomnia are characteristic of anxiety disorders; frequent nightmares disrupting sleep is its own disorder if it occurs outside of ptsd; ect.
so you could have all of the symptoms of ptsd without the trauma it would just be called something else. just like how you can be a system without trauma and its called endogenic to differentiate it from traumagenic systems.
Hey everyone, this is a guide about plurality in the workplace for employers and people who work with systems, written by Irenes and FreyasSpirit! It was written as a general thing but I think at least one of them works for Google specifically and the guide was initially being used for that, but just now got published for the public. It's a really neat resource so check it out and spread it around if you want!
american crows plan, use tools, recognize humans and other crows, and can form interspecies friendships and partnerships. they like to play and goof around. along with only a few other species, they pass the mirror test - recognizing themselves in a mirror.
here's some crows playing in the snow: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_ta33bMB70
and a video about tool use: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DDmCxUncIyc
they're corvids, related to jays, magpies, ravens, and ... other types of crows like the fish crow.
Since I front the most I've been using the bodies social media as my own, which works well enough. Sometimes its odd given the name difference but honestly I'm more comfortable overall with no match and its way to much work to move to new accounts or maintain more then we all having going already
hrt, trans stuff, asking for experiences Show more
As we've been going through hrt its been becoming clearer that 1. We are all pretty darn pleased with the results and 2. the way the body is looking doesn't really resemble any of us individually.
However given that all of us have very differing appearances, most of which are very inhuman, and even our 'best case genetic lottery as a human' appearances don't really share much, if it did end up looking like one of us the others would probably get dysphoric.
We're not sure if its that we've ended up with a combo of all of our features or something else entirely, and honestly we're curious as to other systems experiences with transitioning and hrt.
re: syscourse, abuse mention, long Show more
*theoretically you could compare systems with no trauma history to trauma based ones to non systems with trauma and non systems without but brain imaging being what it is you need to know the areas you want to look at and we don't actually know exactly what brain architecture is involved in dissociation.
this makes it prohibitively difficult to do the above since for an accurate picture of the differences you would need to compare everything if you don't know the specific areas. which would be a ridiculous amount of work in a two way study with enough people for a decent effect size let alone a 4x4 design like above
syscourse, abuse mention, long Show more
if you say that it's been scientifically proven that trauma causes multiplicity you either don't know what scientifically proven means or know of, and endorse, horrific abuse and presumably illegal experimentation.
to prove causation scientifically* entails an experiment with a control and test group and comparing the difference between the two.
in terms of sorting out causation of multiplicity that means purposely traumatizing a, fairly large if you want a decent effect size, group of children for years, in order to see if they end up plural. that is not only horrifically unethical and evil, there is no way to get that past an ethics board which means its never going to be done.
also science still can't agree if multiplicity is a real thing, so if you say that there is a fucking consensus on the cause you have no what you are talking about.
#justpluralthings swapping from plural to singular pronouns in the middle of a sentence because part of what you're saying applies to the system and part only to you
we are probably going to be sort of quiet on here as those of us who want blogs have our own general ones. on that note if we follow you and you see a blog on another federation interact it's probably us, feel free to shoot us a message if you want to confirm if someone is one of us. we don't really hide anything but we also don't talk about being multiple and at i'm the only one whose actual name is on my blog.
Reminder that Nintendo artifically creates scarcity with it's "classic" consoles in order to inflate prices and make themselves look good good to investors. They do it every holiday season, never seeming to learn their lesson.
Buy a Raspberry Pi and make your own (or just install this on your computer of choice): https://retropie.org.uk/download/
#justsystemthings keeping your host from posting things on tumblr that's basically the equivalent of swinging a bat at a hornet's nest
Plural Café is a community for plural systems and plural-friendly singlets alike, that hopes to foster a safe place for finding and interacting with other systems in the Mastodon fediverse.