re: community-critical, plural, system roles and terms, persecutors 

@pixel @hungryghosts (Ar) Speaking as someone who could be considered a former persecutor, I feel like it reflects upon the whole system when a member likes to willingly say that they are in a role that is actively harmful to themselves or others. It tells me that the other members of the system like to allow the abusiveness and that I should stay away from them.

re: community-critical, plural, system roles and terms, persecutors 

@KT @hungryghosts You could say the same about any system that has a persecutor at all. Are they all just 'allowing' it to happen? Besides, I don't know about you, but I'd much rather have a persecutor who calls themself that but doesn't actually bother to commit any harmful acts any more than one who was labelled that by the rest of the system because they're still causing harm.

re: community-critical, plural, system roles and terms, persecutors 

@pixel (Ar) I didn't actually say anything about persecutors who call themselves that but don't harm others?

Even outside of persecutor, *any* person that performs harm on another by way of intimidation, physical violence, etc. is unhealthy to be around, and similarly, anyone that knows someone is harming another those ways and is looking the other way is also something that is bad.

Persecutors 

@KT @pixel Does Ar think that the rest of my system is "looking the other way"?

re: Persecutors 

@Gemma @pixel (Ar) No, and if I made that insinuation toward anyone in particular, I apologize as that was not my intention.

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Meta 

@KT @pixel Thank you.

I think maybe we need to find another instance. @setsuna should be removed as moderator if you feel that she's allowing abusiveness by letting me describe myself as a persecutor.

re: Meta 

@Gemma @pixel @setsuna stepping in here. I think there's been misunderstandings because Art did not mean that as a personal attack toward anyone. If anything, I think we should instead resign as admin and find someone else to take over if we're making people uncomfortable.

Meta 

@KT @pixel @setsuna I'm not upset, I just think I've caused too much of a stir by including "persecutor/protector" in my intro. People don't seem to like that.

I also don't know how often Pluto will be fronting, so she won't be much of a moderator.

re: Meta 

@Gemma @setsuna ah, gotcha. for the record I don't see you as abusive, nor have I ever gotten that impression. things seem like it got lost in communication (on our end) as far as this went :/ if you still want to be removed as mod, let me know.

Meta 

@KT @setsuna Okay, thanks. I'll let you know what she says.

re: Meta 

@Gemma @setsuna regardless, I meant to get back to jigme about possibly taking ownership of the server and admin spot, but a combination of life events + email issues on my end had been preventing me from reaching back out :/

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