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renamed an emoji for an unfortunately ableist name.

:ms_goofy:

should change in the picker in a couple of minutes

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was stressed out so I drew a sea slug

it actually helped

🐦​

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going to turn into a call center around my singlet friends so they're forced to "speak with a representative" of the host every time they talk to us. no, youre not going to get to talk to the host. redirecting your call to the next available representative.

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hey, southern fried queer pride just sent out an email and put up a gofundme for creating a Black queer owned community space

gofundme.com/f/help-fund-a-bla
this'll be in Atlanta, as SFQP is mostly based in Atlanta with some stuff also in Durham NC.

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hey, we're a system of uh, somewhere between 15 and 25, traumagenic/mixed-origin. we have a singletsona account elsewhere on fedi but we'd like to try to talk about our plurality with other systems sometimes (we're in some discord groups, but sometimes those are hard to keep up with whereas non-realtime communication can be easier). we're physically an adult, have a child and work part-time from home. we live with one of our partners and hopefully soon with both of them.

we have a system site here: seakrait.club

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You ever have a system-mate decide to say that somewhat confrontational thing you had wanted to say for ages and then leave you to deal with the fallout? :/

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going to try to actually make and use an account on this instance

been feeling lately like being actually openly plural/talking about it in at least some spaces might be good for us

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that new transfem bottom surgery thing everyone's on about, medical abuse, forced surgery, intersexism 

the more I see this whole thing about that "new amazing surgery for trans women that came from experimental techniques on cis women" the more I feel sick

this surgery technique was developed by nonconsensually experimenting on and mutilating the bodies of intersex people with MRKH. This surgery comes at the cost of intersex people -- some of whom were part of those experiments and are taking about it right now -- literally being labeled test subjects and subjected to genital mutilation.

Remember that when you talk about how great this advancement is for trans women. It is, for sure, but please don't ignore the violence that was enacted on intersex bodies so trans women can have that surgery.

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the law of ADHD:

if it is not directly in front of me, it does not exist

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friend: *changes character to a girl*
Phoebe: *immediately sets out on a quest to make their character kawaii as fuck*

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plural flirting shitpost 

"I don’t just like the way you look, I also love your personalities"

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do you ever just feel like you're living in a fantasy world where nothing is real and cookies are potatoes?

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told someone and his first question about the rest of the system was "do they like me?" and that's adorable.

was real scared because the last person I told just. pretended it never happened and ignored the rest of us.

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honorable mention: newton has a specific yell for when he thinks something Particularly Important is happening that i should be paying attention to and he does a big wind up for it but its just 'AH!'
just one really short, featureless sound
and it makes me laugh a lot
its probably a result of that positive reinforcement tbh :v

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top 3 noises that cats make 

- when they see a bird but they cant get it so they do that weird chattering thing
- when they go 'brrml?' when you pet them because they were sleepy and not paying attention
- AAAAAAAAAA

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@showerpickles Slightly higher prices and racism.

The only time I've ever been approached by a Target employee was when I was with a Black friend looking at earbuds in the electronics section. Every other time I've been asked if I needed help was casual, but that one was clearly loss prevention profiling us.

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Dog Pictures 

Aaaaa so our dogs had some puppies a couple weeks back and on a random impulse the other day I took a bunch of pics and aaa

Also I still have no idea if I'm doing CW etiquette correct or tagging images correctly for it so here's hoping I didn't mess it up trying :P

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Plural Café is a community for plural systems and plural-friendly singlets alike, that hopes to foster a safe place for finding and interacting with other systems in the Mastodon fediverse.