Barkeep @Barkeep@plural.cafe

🎲 Surely a vogue worthy lizard.

Twitter link to superb Susie cosplay #Deltarune

https://twitter.com/spooky_su/status/1120127849522819072

on this day of celebration of ancient sacrifice, let us remember who it was who gave up their life to bring hope to all the world

#MadokaMagica

@lugh
Been harassed since I was 10. No explanation, but I've pulled out "randomly" for extra security on 19 of my last 20 flights. Which, given their track record, makes me think it was supposed to be all 20 put they're incompetent on a basic level

It fucking sucks. I hate that shit.

🔥​ Huh. Today, I think I gendered myself for the first time since acknowledging we're plural with a casual "alright girl" as an aside. (I've always used she/her pronouns but this is different.) Veeery interesting things happening here.

Though I think I might have merged with Chloe so that could explain it.

@piponfishing "we are now at a popular watering hole for the denizens of this suburbanite enclave, known informally as the 'Old Country Buffet'"

Hi, beautiful systems! I think today is going to be a good, good day.

Mostly because I don't have class.

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We're sorry for taking over this account a bit~ But We've discovered a new interest! 1980s and 1990s popular culture! We wonder if there's any of that stuff on this instance~ The Internet kind of overwhelms Us, so We mostly just hang out here! ;;w;; ~Q

Does anybody know scientific research being done on plurality, but not limited to dissociate disorders? As in how can it be modelled/explained/understood, neural correlates or other.

Both on psychological and neurological level is appreciated, and ideally a combination of both. Thanks!

#AskMastodon #AskMasto #Plurality #Research

System littles > Human babies

holy shit "Treasure Planet" is about 100x better than most Disney films

tired: identifying with Ikari Shinji

wired: identifying with Asuka Langley

inspired: identifying with *all* the characters of Neon Genesis Evangelion as multiple reflections of a complicated self

Hey, Plural Café – what are your favorite up-to-date sources on multiplicity right now? My system keeps using The Layman’s Guide to Multiplicity and it’s a bit old.

You can tag your posts with #PluralLit if you’d prefer not to reply. Much appreciated.

Interest check: If we (mostly me) streamed video games and posted a link to the channel here, would anyone be interested in coming to watch and chat with us? We'll have voice (unless Crash comes out - he'll probably mute the mic) but no face cam. We try not to swear during streams, but the rating of the game will vary (G to MA 15 at most, but nothing 18+).
-Tempo 🎵​

who up in here has been personally attacked by their systemmate absolutely calling out their bull
(or, likewise, WHO SYSTEMMATE UP IN HERE SICK OF GETTIN CALLED OUT)

Something that’s just occurring to me is the fact that women outnumber every other gender on earth. They make up the majority of humans by a considerable margin.

What’s striking to me about this statistic is that people still want to practice monoamory, while believing that monoamory is “fair”. That makes no sense.

First, let’s say the vast majority of these women are attracted to men (reasonable enough). Second, let’s assume that the vast majority of humans (of all genders) enjoy and desire sexual and/or romantic intimacy. Third, the vast majority of people desire “fairness” in society where relationships are concerned: one mate only, don’t cheat on your partner, etc.

What you end up with in that model is a hell of a lot of single ladies.

My argument here is not that all women should be in relationships, but that monoamorists have this...idea that their system is one that is numerically fair, and it just isn’t. It’s not a good theory. Your cis math does not work. Your rationalism only tracks if you assume that humans are incapable of healthy, consensual non-monogamy.

I sometimes get the sense that cis people rationalize monoamory to conceal the fact that they aren’t psychologically mature enough to entertain the idea of a polycule, let alone participate in one. But more than that, I think they do it because capitalism is so deeply ingrained in their psyches that they allow it to dictate how they DATE.

Like.

WHAT.

oh my god, i got the job

@Taweret
🦄 the All-Father rests on his throne, surveying the world and scrutinizing all of its doings
🕷️ would you please stop calling a cat "All-Father"